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March 25, 2002, 11:30 am working for the week and it feels so good.

i have a good many female friends, way more than i am accustomed to having. and as we move and get boyfriends and move in with said boyfriends we run a greater risk of drifting apart. so we try to have these all girl times- slumber parties.

however none of my friends are that girly and we range in age from 22 to 28 or so. (thirty somethings have been invited but have never shown up.) so there's no hair doing or pillow fights in see through nighties like you see in the movies. more like vegging out and watching movies and talking about things we've done lately etc...

however, there was gyno talk, and talk about boys and their underthings. (someone's boyfriend doens't wear underwear in the summer- EWWWW. too gross ....to....comprehend.....)

junk food, junk food and more junk food. it's a good time.

it's funny because when i go to these parties- mike seems to be a little jealous. now, i know some of that is just him joking with me, but some of it also seems genuine. just like when i told my mom about it and she said "how old are you!?!? a slumber party........that sounds fun....i'd like to go." everyone feels like they are drifting from their friends sometimes, and you're never too old to like spending time with them. even if you are a boy.

one person's boyfriend has said that he is going to have a guy party to rival ours and i think that is a great idea. mike is very up for it. all of the boys i know are into hanging out and watching movies and drinking and eating junk food. it's not like it is in the movies where men get together and they have to get wasted, go straight to the strip club, and somehow do something that they have to cover up and/or be ashamed of for a long time to come and wake up with a terrible headache. and the women don't get together and bitch about men and drink some dacquiris and maybe end up making out or at least showing some skin and then crying about how terrible things are and having a heart to heart.

it's just lazy times.

i love it.

even if it does sound boring to some people.

i'm not friends with those people anyway.

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