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June 12* 2002, 2:38 am
(mike- read this at your own risk) so today was a very frustrating day that ended up with a happy ending. mike and i had our meeting with a therapist that would place us with a couples counsellor. this was originally mike's idea that i was apprehensive about. but now it seems that mike has changed his mind. apparently he feels (and his therapist who doesn't know me agrees) that i am the one with the problems so we would not benefit from counselling. this strikes me as both ridiculous and arrogant. since we totally have problems as a couple and we have problems with OUR relationship. the therapist tried to explain this to him, but he said he would still like to think about it. apparently his reason for not wanting counselling is the number one reason men use in this situation. which he apparently knew, but claims he has "good" reasons. whatever. this was his friggin idea!! i don't get it. i have also started to realize that i cannot stand mike's therapist. every time he does something extra rude or hurtful etc,,, he will say "my therapist said i should try it" and he has an insane attatchment to the guy. CUT THE CHORD. he is the kind of guy who was overly reliant on his parents for WAYYY to long and in some ways still can be. and treats his relationship with his therapist the same way. it's like he is paying some guy to be his friend/dad. and he listens to everything he says blindly. what he says goes. he should date his therapist. they would be together forever. or atleast until mike's money ran out. i am very frustrated with him right now. i have a hard time getting through to him and never really feel like i have. he never seems to get it. which is just him. but i was hoping counselling would help us with that. but apparently he has no faults and is totally willing to do anything to help me fix mine. anything except counselling. this rant has made me sleepy. g'night |